Old Monkey
Treehouser
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I grew up poor in Marin County California one of the wealthiest places in America. We always knew that we weren't like other families. I just listened as my friends talked about goings skiing or taking trips to Hawaii. I thought it was somehow shameful that all we ever did was go camping(something I am proud of now). I remember going out with other kids and sitting in fast food restaurants and not ordering anything for myself because I didn't have two cents in my pocket. Now I am a dad and I can provide a bit more for my own kid, which is a great thing. Here's my dilemma though, I don't want my daughter to feel the way I did but I don't want her to be spoiled with no sense of financial boundaries either . I have been thinking about this as we just celebrated her 5th birthday and kids seem to get as much toys these days in one birthday as I had my whole childhood. Even the kids who attend parties get their own gift bags. Imagine expecting a present for yourself on someone else's birthday? I hope we're not producing a generation of brats. There is too much junk in kids lives by half.